foreplay in the sexual act
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(04-14-2011, 09:53 PM)PatienceAndLove Wrote:
(04-14-2011, 09:49 PM)CanadianCatholic Wrote:
(04-14-2011, 09:07 PM)Vetus Ordo Wrote: When it comes to sexual relations, it's better to play it safe since they are the cause of perdition to many a soul.

In short, I'd say these are the safest guidelines:

1) Between husband and wife alone (no brainer here);
2) No birth control or even NFP;
3) "Missionary" position alone. Avoid positions that mimic animal copulation, no matter how "exciting" or "harmless" they may seem at first;
4) Avoid needless foreplay, especially oral stimulation that degrades the other spouse;
5) If you can't have any more children, abstain from sex;
6) Try to see the spiritual person in the other spouse to avoid degrading him/her to a sexual object that satisfies your needs.
Except for #5, everything you said is ridiculous...seriously. Your going to make a boring as heck husband one day. why would you abstain from sex if you cant have kids? Sex is the glue that holds the couple together. Its an important part of the marriage. You probably think its a sin to enjoy it I imagine? its ok to do it for fun. Seriously dude...And as far as positions, its harmless....it doesnt degrade either spouse when both are consenting.

Exactly!  I haven't been on the receiving end of oral sex very often, but when I have, I have felt FAR from degraded. 
As for positions- they are fun! And can be incredibly pleasurable.  And pleasure is important, especially since female orgasm aids in conception (it creates a sucking/vacuum motion that actually helps pull the sperm up into the uterus)
EXACTLY!
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foreplay in the sexual act - by st.dominic_savio - 04-13-2011, 12:56 PM
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Re: foreplay in the sexual act - by Vetus Ordo - 04-13-2011, 07:44 PM
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Re: foreplay in the sexual act - by Andrew - 04-13-2011, 09:48 PM
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Re: foreplay in the sexual act - by Historian - 04-14-2011, 06:53 PM
Re: foreplay in the sexual act - by Andrew - 04-14-2011, 07:19 PM
Re: foreplay in the sexual act - by Vetus Ordo - 04-14-2011, 07:25 PM
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Re: foreplay in the sexual act - by CanadianCatholic - 04-14-2011, 09:56 PM
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