Catholics and homosexuality

[JayneK]

I'll stand by what I've said. I don't think I need to be enlightened about it. I know good Catholics suffer about it but it doesn't make it a special thing. It's wrong. We shouldn't lie.

It is wrong and we should say that it wrong.  But everybody's suffering matters.  Consider Galatians 6:1,2:

[1] Brethren, and if a man be overtaken in any fault, you, who are spiritual, instruct such a one in the spirit of meekness, considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted. [2] Bear ye one another's burdens; and so you shall fulfill the law of Christ.