(Urgent) Confession help
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Help me please I'm begging anyone. I am scrupulous so it's hard for me to think but I really want to reconcile with God more than anything. I finally have a chance to go to confession soon after a year and this is really urgent please!

Are these sins? (Sorry if they are graphic)

1st is I had this impure dream, and I tried to remember it, when it was there..I removed it from my mind after seconds. Venial or Mortal?

2nd, are impure thoughts still impure if they did not contain sexual arousal (sorry) or private images? I was watching something and someone made a homosexual joke, my mind was messed up so I deliberately thought of how this guy wants the other guy and gained a pleasure thing in my mind but I did not think of any sexual part, it disgusts me. So could it still be lust if no sexual feeling were involved? Do I have to confess to homosexual thoughts? Mortally?

3rd
I was watching something (wasnt porn) and it showed revealing stuff, I kept watching while fighting any arousal. Even if they were there I fought and fought. But still watched.

4th
I was wearing pants but realized they were too tight, I still stepped out and walked ( not impurely) wanting to gain attention from it impurely( the thought lasted for 4 seconds) and then I trashed it, it wasn't like me and its the first time I've done that.
Was that a thought only or an action?
5th
If something bad happened to someone and I liked it then canceled the thought..what is it?

And just out of curiosity and knowledge, what changes the nature of an impure thought? Does pedophilia change it? (I'm against it btw)

That's all..I know I need a good spiritual advisor but for now..please..were these probably mortal or venial based on what you've read? Thank you so much and I'm really excited to be reconciled with God but scared of the priest too.
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(Urgent) Confession help - by Chelsea5 - 04-14-2017, 02:15 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by In His Love - 04-14-2017, 03:14 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by MichaelNZ - 04-14-2017, 04:51 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by Chelsea5 - 04-14-2017, 08:39 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by Melkite - 04-14-2017, 09:12 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by GangGreen - 04-14-2017, 09:54 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by Chelsea5 - 04-14-2017, 10:52 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by MagisterMusicae - 04-14-2017, 12:28 PM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by Chelsea5 - 04-15-2017, 01:05 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by In His Love - 04-15-2017, 01:32 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by Miriam_M - 04-15-2017, 02:18 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by MichaelNZ - 04-15-2017, 03:59 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by MagisterMusicae - 04-15-2017, 08:56 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by Chelsea5 - 04-16-2017, 06:03 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by In His Love - 04-16-2017, 06:36 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by Chelsea5 - 04-17-2017, 06:09 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by MagisterMusicae - 04-18-2017, 08:20 AM
Re: (Urgent) Confession help - by Panum - 04-18-2017, 05:00 PM



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