Husband sedevecantist problem
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(07-25-2017, 02:19 PM)Melissa9 Wrote: He I'm having a major problem with my traditional almost sedevecantist husband. We have one baby right now and he wants another one before this one is 1 year old. For many reasons, we simply cannot afford another one right now and are even relying on his parents for money at times. This really kills me as I feel so ashamed. 
        He thinks nfp is evil and even when I suggested complete abstinence he refused saying we should be an example to the world tgat children are a blessing. Now children are a blessing but this is totally unreasonable. He basically wants as many children as possible to stick it to society.
       If we even waited three months we would be in a way better position than now. If I would refuse to have sex with him, he would call me a modernist And lube me up (hope that's not too crude) and have his way with me basically because he doesn't believe in rape in marriage. He probably doesn't take me seriously because I have a very high sex drive  and I do enjoy it physically if not mentally. ( I did not know he was this extreme when I married him although there were probably signs) What would you do? How do i convince him in traditional terms?

Wow, what a difficult situation.  You will be in my prayers.
"To err is human, to forgive is divine."
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Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 02:19 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Steven - 07-25-2017, 03:16 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 04:08 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Steven - 07-25-2017, 04:19 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 04:50 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Steven - 07-25-2017, 05:06 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 04:57 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 05:18 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 05:31 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 05:36 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 05:39 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 05:41 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 05:50 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by jovan66102 - 07-25-2017, 06:26 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 06:32 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melkite - 07-27-2017, 06:01 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 06:33 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-25-2017, 06:59 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Pacman - 07-26-2017, 05:43 AM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-27-2017, 01:50 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-27-2017, 02:31 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-27-2017, 02:21 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Jeeter - 07-27-2017, 09:33 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by tradne4163 - 07-28-2017, 06:01 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-28-2017, 07:04 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by tradne4163 - 07-28-2017, 07:28 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Jeeter - 07-28-2017, 09:54 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-28-2017, 11:02 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Melissa9 - 07-28-2017, 11:16 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by tradne4163 - 07-29-2017, 10:04 PM
RE: Husband sedevecantist problem - by Catholic87 - 08-16-2017, 12:27 AM



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