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My understand of the subject is that the Church doesn't have some magical laundry list of "DO" and "DON'T" positions. We are however supposed to think about engaging in acts that lift up and praise our God given dignity in each other. Maybe a better question to ask is how do to these acts esteem and dignify the human person? I think often times these acts in our era are more subtly a display of domination however in the past anally exploiting someone was seen as an explicit / deliberate act of domination.

Lastly, I don't mean to "kill the moment" but at the end of the day the orgasm is largely a product of ones own neurological chemistry and physiology. The other person is a stimulus but you can only experience what is in your brains own capacity to experience. Position, acts, etc are largely irrelevant to pleasure you experience. If you *think* you are getting better orgasms doing X its because of mind over matter. You are just fooling yourself into thinking something is true that isn't therefore exploiting your own brain. I think the allure of these acts is that they show a disordered willingness to give oneself totally, however the same level of understanding could be achieved as follows:

For Women
1) Turn off the chick flicks and stop commiserating with your gal pals about how awful men are. The more you dwell on the negative the more it foments and consumes you.
2) Stop with the "men are from Mars" attitude. We were birthed from one of you for crying out loud so if we're alien so are you. In some cases our DNA resides in your permanently from birth.

For Guys
1) Do us all a favor and stop making our sex worthlessly cheap. Supply and demand.....we give too much "supply." Women need to feel like predators on the hunt every now and then but no one wants to shoot an easy can't miss target. The sense of satisfaction comes from having to work for your meal with skill.
2) Stop the woman-worship. "Thou shalt have no false gods" ring a bell? The ground woman walks on is not hallowed. We need to take care of ourselves too so there something worth desiring.

Once we can shed ourselves of these insecurities then we can fully open up to each other and not need to obsess over positions and acts.
Local anti-feminist.....if you think women deserve special treatment without any accountability for their actions expect to hear from me!
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