Aspergers and ADHD
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Satori Wrote:How is that a problem with taking things literally? You mean you expect people to arrive when they say that will, that you expect events to begin at the time stated? Is that not a case when it is correct to "take things literally"? I hate it when people are late and when they don't do what they said they were going to do; I hate it when I ask my husband when he's coming in to eat his dinner and he says, "In a minute," and then comes in half an hour later. I chalk up this sort of thing to the lack of consideration for others that seems to be endemic to contemporary Western people. Can you give another example of this social literalness?
I don't want to give an example and have it set in stone. The literalness is a tendency, not something that can't be overcome.

Someone with AS will take things literally by default. It is easy to miss figures of speech, sarcasm, etc.

Quote:I suppose not all "aspies" are the same when it comes to emotions. Perhaps some are simmering kettles of emotion and others are more cool and collected, like you.

I'm not sure I understand your description of aspie-love, but then, love is a very difficult thing to explain.


 

Emotions are difficult to describe (for anyone). Some are more emotional than others, just like NT's, but most people with AS have very similiar views of emotion. To know if someone is happy to see you, upset, or whatever most NT's expect to know by the person's body movement and facial expression and will ask "what is wrong?" or whatever if they are concerned. For someone with AS, if they want you to know they will tell you and if you want us to know, you should tell us.
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Aspergers and ADHD - by VoxClamantis - 08-22-2008, 05:53 AM
Aspergers and ADHD - by kjvail - 08-22-2008, 09:17 AM
Aspergers and ADHD - by DarkKnight - 08-22-2008, 10:37 AM
Aspergers and ADHD - by britmum - 09-01-2008, 10:45 PM
Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 09-02-2008, 02:11 AM
Aspergers and ADHD - by jovan66102 - 09-02-2008, 03:52 AM
Aspergers and ADHD - by ResiduumRevertetur - 09-02-2008, 08:01 AM
Aspergers and ADHD - by kjvail - 09-02-2008, 08:08 AM
Aspergers and ADHD - by DarkKnight - 09-02-2008, 10:21 AM
Aspergers and ADHD - by kjvail - 09-02-2008, 10:28 AM
Aspergers and ADHD - by DarkKnight - 09-02-2008, 10:43 AM
Aspergers and ADHD - by ResiduumRevertetur - 09-02-2008, 10:44 AM
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Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 12-31-2008, 06:52 PM
Aspergers and ADHD - by voxpopulisuxx - 01-01-2009, 11:53 AM
Aspergers and ADHD - by AdoramusTeChriste - 01-01-2009, 07:57 PM
Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 01-01-2009, 09:21 PM
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Aspergers and ADHD - by mom - 01-06-2009, 12:51 AM
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Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 01-06-2009, 03:08 AM
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Aspergers and ADHD - by VoxClamantis - 01-17-2009, 09:06 PM
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Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Lee Timmer - 07-25-2009, 04:09 PM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 07-25-2009, 04:43 PM
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Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by voxpopulisuxx - 07-27-2009, 06:16 AM
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Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 07-27-2009, 10:40 AM
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Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 07-27-2009, 11:48 AM
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Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by devotedknuckles - 07-27-2009, 10:18 PM
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Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by devotedknuckles - 07-27-2009, 11:16 PM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by DarkKnight - 07-27-2009, 11:41 PM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 07-28-2009, 12:18 AM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 07-28-2009, 12:21 AM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by DarkKnight - 07-28-2009, 12:27 AM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 07-28-2009, 12:28 AM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 07-28-2009, 12:30 AM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Dust - 07-28-2009, 02:15 AM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Dust - 07-28-2009, 02:15 AM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by voxpopulisuxx - 07-28-2009, 08:34 AM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 07-28-2009, 11:50 AM
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Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by orate - 07-28-2009, 12:57 PM
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