Aspergers and ADHD
(07-28-2009, 11:50 AM)Rosarium Wrote:
(07-28-2009, 08:34 AM)voxpopulisuxx Wrote: 18 in 2 weeks

I hope it works out, but nothing is for sure.

Perhaps you could arrange a birthday party (a party that he'd enjoy) and try to reconcile with him there. Talking to him face to face may not work out so well, so perhaps you could drop him an email or a letter asking for time to get together and talk.

This isn't really AS specific; I learned of that from an advice column and it seems to work pretty well.

That's a good point.  Also, some of my friends are therapists who have been working successfully with boys (some with AS, some not) for many years and they always advise that when you want to have a "serious talk" with any boy you should first initiate an activity in which you can both participate - play cards, yard work, fishing, etc.  It decreases the anxiety that many boys feel related to emotional interpersonal communication.  Also, at some point a non-AS person is just going to have to take the AS person's word for it that certain things make him/her very uncomfortable, and learn to meet them halfway.
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Aspergers and ADHD - by VoxClamantis - 08-22-2008, 05:53 AM
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Aspergers and ADHD - by britmum - 09-01-2008, 10:45 PM
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Aspergers and ADHD - by DarkKnight - 09-02-2008, 10:21 AM
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Aspergers and ADHD - by DarkKnight - 09-02-2008, 10:43 AM
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Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Lee Timmer - 07-25-2009, 04:09 PM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 07-25-2009, 04:43 PM
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Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by devotedknuckles - 07-27-2009, 10:18 PM
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Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by DarkKnight - 07-27-2009, 11:41 PM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 07-28-2009, 12:18 AM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by Historian - 07-28-2009, 12:21 AM
Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by DarkKnight - 07-28-2009, 12:27 AM
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Re: Aspergers and ADHD - by voxpopulisuxx - 07-28-2009, 08:34 AM
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