How to convert her??
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Try and get her to read some books by Catholic mothers on contraception and the contraceptive mentality.  As you begin to think about this topic and research it you realise that the Church was absolutely spot on in its prediction.  A contraceptive mentality leads to an abortive mentality.  Humane Vitae is about the only thing that stops me becoming a card carrying SV because when the chips were down and the bishops and Catholic of the world would have loved Pope Paul VI to cave in and say contraception was OK within marriage he did the reverse.  Given all that we know about Pope Paul VIth otherwise, one may reasonably only conclude that this was the Holy Ghost acting.  I do.

For a lot of Catholics at the time Humane Vitae was a huge shock.  They expected the Church would go along with the world and cave on contraception.  After all it had with the Second Vatican Council and the liturgy.

Don't marry this woman until she is convinced herself that a contraceptive mentality is wrong.  Otherwise you're going to have a lot of angst in the marriage, or green days and red days.  As soon as she has what she considers a large enough family, then she'll stick te knife in over the contraceptive issue.  Everytime the kids get on hers or your wick she'll throw it back at you and mock you for wanting more.  The only way you're going to be able to have a natural and normal sex-life and a happy marriage is if she surrenders to the will of God.  If she doesn't you'll never get the monkey off your back.

And she has to come to this conclusion on her own.  Don't let her tell you what you want to hear merely to keep you sweet and get a ring on her finger and a wedding day.

One last tip.  Introduce her only to relatively well off, large Catholic families where the mother looks reasonably attractive.  My wife and plenty of other women I know are impressed by this because when it comes down to it, there are actually many more women who would like to have lots of children than will ever admit to it, even non Catholic ones.  What stops most women is 1. the damage to their figure they perceive multiple childbirths will do (they call this their health but actually they mean that then want a teen body shape into their mid thirties or early forties because of media pressure and television shows like desperate housewives and sex and the city.  2.  What they perceive as the lower standard of living that more children will mean.

I know at least a dozen non Catholic women who if they married a well off man with a six figure stable income and no debts would willingly have half a dozen kids provided they had a personal trainer and a gold credit card to by nice clothes.
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How to convert her?? - by crusaderfortruth3372 - 04-20-2010, 04:36 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Historian - 04-20-2010, 04:38 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by HotRod - 04-20-2010, 04:48 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by The_Harlequin_King - 04-20-2010, 04:53 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Historian - 04-20-2010, 04:58 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by cgraye - 04-20-2010, 05:10 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by cgraye - 04-20-2010, 05:22 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Walty - 04-20-2010, 05:27 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Historian - 04-20-2010, 05:36 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Iolanthe - 04-20-2010, 05:37 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by JayneK - 04-20-2010, 05:45 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Historian - 04-20-2010, 06:02 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by HotRod - 04-20-2010, 06:39 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Historian - 04-20-2010, 06:58 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-20-2010, 07:09 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Satori - 04-20-2010, 07:16 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by HotRod - 04-20-2010, 07:42 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Mhoram - 04-20-2010, 07:50 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by TraceG - 04-20-2010, 07:55 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Satori - 04-20-2010, 08:00 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-20-2010, 08:11 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by MagisterMusicae - 04-20-2010, 08:35 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-20-2010, 08:42 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by JayneK - 04-20-2010, 08:49 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by MagisterMusicae - 04-20-2010, 09:44 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by MagisterMusicae - 04-21-2010, 02:50 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by ggreg - 04-21-2010, 06:04 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Mhoram - 04-21-2010, 10:31 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-21-2010, 10:41 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-21-2010, 10:44 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by CollegeCatholic - 04-21-2010, 11:17 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by The_Harlequin_King - 04-21-2010, 12:48 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by amasimp - 04-21-2010, 01:21 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Iolanthe - 04-21-2010, 01:35 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by amasimp - 04-21-2010, 01:42 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by CollegeCatholic - 04-21-2010, 02:39 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Iolanthe - 04-21-2010, 03:25 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Satori - 04-21-2010, 05:48 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Dust - 04-21-2010, 10:26 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Baskerville - 04-21-2010, 10:32 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Baskerville - 04-21-2010, 10:36 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by ggreg - 04-22-2010, 11:48 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by ggreg - 04-22-2010, 11:49 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Satori - 04-22-2010, 12:00 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Iolanthe - 04-22-2010, 12:35 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-22-2010, 12:44 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Mhoram - 04-22-2010, 02:18 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Satori - 04-22-2010, 02:47 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Iolanthe - 04-22-2010, 03:03 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-22-2010, 03:04 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Satori - 04-22-2010, 03:21 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-22-2010, 04:04 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Satori - 04-22-2010, 04:08 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by HotRod - 04-22-2010, 04:10 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Bonifacius - 04-22-2010, 04:23 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by ggreg - 04-22-2010, 05:12 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by amasimp - 04-22-2010, 05:18 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Iolanthe - 04-22-2010, 05:31 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Satori - 04-22-2010, 05:45 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Iolanthe - 04-22-2010, 05:54 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Satori - 04-22-2010, 05:59 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by The_Harlequin_King - 04-22-2010, 06:00 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-22-2010, 06:38 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by HotRod - 04-22-2010, 08:09 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by ggreg - 04-23-2010, 08:03 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by HotRod - 04-23-2010, 09:12 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by ggreg - 04-23-2010, 11:43 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-23-2010, 11:59 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Augstine Baker - 04-23-2010, 12:15 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-23-2010, 12:42 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Augstine Baker - 04-23-2010, 02:17 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-23-2010, 03:06 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Vetus Ordo - 04-23-2010, 03:09 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Historian - 04-23-2010, 03:09 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Vetus Ordo - 04-23-2010, 03:24 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Iolanthe - 04-23-2010, 03:38 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by CollegeCatholic - 04-23-2010, 03:41 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by amasimp - 04-23-2010, 03:46 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by James02 - 04-23-2010, 04:20 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Mhoram - 04-23-2010, 04:31 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Augstine Baker - 04-23-2010, 04:35 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by amasimp - 04-23-2010, 04:37 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Historian - 04-23-2010, 04:38 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Historian - 04-23-2010, 04:41 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Iolanthe - 04-23-2010, 08:24 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Augstine Baker - 04-23-2010, 09:29 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Iolanthe - 04-23-2010, 10:11 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Satori - 04-23-2010, 11:33 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by CollegeCatholic - 04-24-2010, 01:07 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by CollegeCatholic - 04-24-2010, 01:12 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Augstine Baker - 04-24-2010, 01:31 AM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Iolanthe - 04-24-2010, 03:12 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Augstine Baker - 04-26-2010, 06:45 PM
Re: How to convert her?? - by Iolanthe - 04-26-2010, 09:06 PM



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