How to convert her??

[Baskerville]

Most "ordinary" Catholics (like people who go to church regularly but don't read apologetics or Internet fora) aren't even aware of the various ideological factions.

Nor are they likely to be fully aware of the contraception issue; at least, not any more than little soundbytes like "the Pope hates condoms". Of course that's not going to make any sense. The Catholic faith's opposition to contraception can only be understood if one has a solidly Catholic worldview.

Boy is that the truth I remember when I was a NO'er like that such blissful ignorance sometimes I long for those days.