How to convert her??

[crusaderfortruth3372]

Hard to say, I suppose it depends on the woman.  Some would be receptive, others would find it off-putting.  That is why I said to tread lightly.  How do you tell a woman to dress modestly without the implication that you think she dresses like a tart?  Depends on the woman and the approach.  I had a guy take me to my first Latin Mass.  He'd only seen me in slacks, and asked if I had a skirt.  I thought that was a very clever, yet gentle, way of telling me that I should wear a skirt.  If he had phrased it as more of a directive, i.e. "you need to wear a skirt", I would have been annoyed.  

Yes, I don't know you, but from the way you write it appears she is only comfortable dressing like you did... I have only seen her in nice slacks, but I won't press this issue or get her annoyed... I;m assuming when she does get around to joining me at the TLM I could say, "Have you ever worn a skirt"? Or should I just say, "Do you have a skirt??" It has to go below the knees too, I surmise. The bottom line is at least she has agreed to attend a TLM with me. :)