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(04-14-2011, 09:07 PM)Vetus Ordo Wrote: When it comes to sexual relations, it's better to play it safe since they are the cause of perdition to many a soul.

In short, I'd say these are the safest guidelines:

1) Between husband and wife alone (no brainer here);
2) No birth control or even NFP;
3) "Missionary" position alone. Avoid positions that mimic animal copulation, no matter how "exciting" or "harmless" they may seem at first;
4) Avoid needless foreplay, especially oral stimulation that degrades the other spouse;
5) If you can't have any more children, abstain from sex;
6) Try to see the spiritual person in the other spouse to avoid degrading him/her to a sexual object that satisfies your needs.
I concur with you on 3 and 4 Vetus. The various goofy positions tend to originate from a pornographic idea of sex for ones own gain. Sex that originates out of spousal love wouldn't need kinky positions. They can degrade or be uncomfortable to one of the spouses. Oral stimulation I've always found to be as dirty as anal sex stuff. It's gross and degrades the spouse into a living sex toy that has no feelings. Although I agree with Rosarium's  post. Some people may have to participate in sex differently because of physical ailments etc.
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