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Let us be direct, as single people, abstaining completely from any sort of sexual activity and thoughts is what is necessary and holy.

This complete abstinence of single people makes it very difficult to discuss the relationship of the married. I prefer not to, as the married are two in one flesh, and the dynamics of their relationship is very difficult for us to comprehend.

However, I think of it as how we eat. We eat for a purpose, but that is not why we choose to eat usually. We eat because it is satisfying and we eat food that is pleasurable to us. As long as we do not fall into gluttony, satisfying this desire appropriately is not sinful. Abstaining from eating or pleasures associated with it is mortifying for the flesh, which is good, but it is not something we do all the time.

So, the married, when satisfying what is natural for them, are given an end to complete (like ingesting food), so as long as that end is not frustrated, then I do not think it is appropriate to say anything is wrong. We do not worry too much about taking too long to eat, or overly enjoying something which is good when eating. We know that fasting is beneficial as well.

The unmarried state is superior to the married (St. Paul) but when we are in a position, such as needing to eat, or being married, satisfying the appetites when it is appropriate does not have much restrictions.
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