Headcoverings
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(08-24-2011, 08:06 AM)Iolanthe Wrote:
(08-24-2011, 07:25 AM)Revixit Wrote: It's the trad macho world. 

Exactly. The second the OP said she wasn't interested in/able to sew the veils, the idea should have been dropped. I like both ggreg and newyorkcatholic, and neither of them seems to have  a negative attitude towards women at all, but it's this kind of pushy, know-it-all obnoxiousness that earns trad men their poor reputation.

There is no way I can respond to all the stuff Revisit threw at me, but quickly: (1) an entire parish doing everything by itself is extreme, but a parish have parishioners doing *more* things by itself is a great idea.  Example: we don't cater our after-Mass breakfasts -- we do it all ourselves.  If someone can sew and repair vestments, use them!  And so on.  (2) You keep repeating stuff like male vs female, but I don't assume only women can sew.  (3) You also said I "insinuate" that it's the only way.  Sewing is not the only fricking way!  But it's cheaper.  I could go one, but you are not listening and I'm tired of repeating myself.

BTW this is what I am referring to: "Since you and ggreg have asserted that there is nothing to making veils, and insinuated that it's wrong to spend money to buy them" -- I think you should apologize for this false characterization.  Of course you disagree with me if you somehow got this warped understanding of my view.

To Iolanthe: If it were just a convo between me and the OP, I would have dropped the topic in a second.  But when I am accused of being a woman-hater who suggests a ridiculous and crazy stupid evil thing like sewing the things to a person who asks about how to get mantillas and save some money, I am going to respond!  This thread is about more than just suggestions for the OP.  Doing some sewing or doing other things for yourself, especially if you want to save money, is a good thing.  It just is :-).  And it's not the only way, but I don't want to be villified for making that suggestion, and I feel right to defend myself.
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Messages In This Thread
Headcoverings - by aDREfromMI - 08-19-2011, 02:40 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by newyorkcatholic - 08-19-2011, 02:46 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Gakmo - 08-19-2011, 02:52 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by aDREfromMI - 08-19-2011, 02:54 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Revixit - 08-19-2011, 07:08 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Someone1776 - 08-19-2011, 07:17 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Gakmo - 08-19-2011, 07:20 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Gert - 08-19-2011, 08:27 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by MaterLaeta - 08-19-2011, 11:27 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by jovan66102 - 08-20-2011, 02:13 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by ggreg - 08-20-2011, 02:33 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by Spooky - 08-20-2011, 02:47 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by aDREfromMI - 08-20-2011, 12:39 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by newyorkcatholic - 08-20-2011, 12:42 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by DesperatelySeeking - 08-20-2011, 04:08 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by miss_fluffy - 08-20-2011, 04:45 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by JayneK - 08-20-2011, 05:50 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Historian - 08-20-2011, 10:38 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by SavedByGrace - 08-20-2011, 10:48 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by GraceSeeker - 08-21-2011, 08:25 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by Josué - 08-21-2011, 10:39 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by ggreg - 08-21-2011, 03:36 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by newyorkcatholic - 08-21-2011, 05:49 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by m.PR - 08-21-2011, 06:50 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Gakmo - 08-21-2011, 07:20 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by JacafamalaRedux - 08-21-2011, 07:27 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by JacafamalaRedux - 08-22-2011, 09:57 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by DesperatelySeeking - 08-22-2011, 08:45 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Revixit - 08-22-2011, 09:14 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by DesperatelySeeking - 08-22-2011, 09:19 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by newyorkcatholic - 08-22-2011, 10:03 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by ggreg - 08-23-2011, 01:16 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by dymphna17 - 08-23-2011, 02:16 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by ggreg - 08-23-2011, 02:58 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by JacafamalaRedux - 08-23-2011, 06:35 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by newyorkcatholic - 08-23-2011, 03:17 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Revixit - 08-23-2011, 04:05 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Revixit - 08-23-2011, 04:11 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by ggreg - 08-23-2011, 04:24 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by newyorkcatholic - 08-23-2011, 05:45 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by JacafamalaRedux - 08-23-2011, 07:59 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Revixit - 08-23-2011, 10:26 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Revixit - 08-23-2011, 10:36 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by aby - 08-23-2011, 11:24 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by newyorkcatholic - 08-23-2011, 11:28 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by aby - 08-23-2011, 11:48 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Revixit - 08-24-2011, 07:25 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by Iolanthe - 08-24-2011, 08:06 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by ggreg - 08-24-2011, 08:38 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by Revixit - 08-24-2011, 09:48 AM
Re: Headcoverings - by newyorkcatholic - 08-24-2011, 02:51 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Iolanthe - 08-24-2011, 03:10 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by newyorkcatholic - 08-24-2011, 03:15 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Iolanthe - 08-24-2011, 03:29 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by trident59 - 08-24-2011, 04:41 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by Mithrandylan - 08-24-2011, 05:48 PM
Re: Headcoverings - by newyorkcatholic - 08-24-2011, 09:39 PM



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