08-24-2011, 03:15 PM
(08-24-2011, 03:10 PM)Iolanthe Wrote: The problem was that both you and ggreg kept pushing the idea AFTER the OP said TWICE that she wasn't interested in sewing the veils herself. I don't understand why it's hard to imagine how annoying that would be. You do stuff yourself? Great. That doesn't mean that everyone can or should make things instead of buying them.
I wasn't pushing the idea on her, or at least I didn't mean to. I meant and still mean only to defend the idea of sewing the mantillas as reasonable.
In other words:
"The OP doesn't want to sew them" is okay.
"So you never should have suggested it, it's because you hate women, what a crazy idea that the mantillas could be sewn" -- that's not okay, that's unreasonable.