Dating: who?
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(08-26-2011, 12:50 PM)rosemary6 Wrote:
(08-23-2011, 11:22 PM)PeterII Wrote: If I had to choose, I would pick the one who is more naturally virtuous, which sounds like the Protestant.  But you'll probably be better off with neither of them. If it's any consolation, I've been told more than once by married men that while they love their wife somewhat and kids, if they had to do it again, they would rather not be married.  

Probably because they married for the wrong reasons. Marry your best friend - you want someone you LOVE to talk to.  But marrying a Protestant would, I think, be a mistake.  To marry with the view you will try to change them (get them to come into the Church) puts a lot of strain on your relationship.  You want to like / love everything about this person the minute you marry them, so they need to be Catholic.  You will have enough difficulties and times of stress that will need to be dealt with, why start out with such a big one?  Besides most Protestants will want to use birth control, ignorantly, but still it would be a big problem immediately.  Also, how can a Protestant teach your children the Catholic faith?

Just my opinion.
Rosemary

MOST Catholics use birth control too.

Most Catholics don't know or understand their faith so they could not teach it to their children even if they wanted to.

We are in an extreme period of history and if you want to find a spouse you may need to compromise a little and travel a little and put yourself out there a lot.  It might cost you $10,000 or $50,000 dollars to pursue the right woman for you if she is a continent away.  But if you think getting married is expensive, try getting divorced.  Asking advice on a forum is not going to help you make a rational calm headed decision.
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