The real St. Francis of Assisi
(02-01-2012, 04:51 PM)Guardian Wrote:
(02-01-2012, 03:20 PM)Vetus Ordo Wrote: The same thing for Iolanthe. She's been around Fish Eaters for quite some time too. She attends the TLM and has priests in her family. Although very opinionated and occasionally coming across as bitter when it comes to male-female topics, a healthy benefit of the doubt and sheer courtesy should be shown to her. Simply accusing her of being a feminist, even if in a veiled manner, is also rash and unmerited and does not accomplish anything but to foment antagonism.

All disagreements with fellow sisters in Christ should be dealt with in the most gentlemanly manner possible.

Ok, now I'm mad.   This is a bunch of bull.  The fact that she has been here a while, goes to the TLM, and has Priests in her family is completely irrelevant.  There was ZERO need for the hostility towards me.  I did NOT accuse her being a feminist and was gentlemanly the entire time.   Anyone who thinks otherwise should go back and reread the exchange.  The only controversial statement I made was merely pointing out that her TONE could be interpreted a certain way.  Whether it was sarcasm, arrogance or she was just plain annoyed; I find in debates a hostile tone is not constructive.  I made it clear I was not accusing her and even pointed to the parts where I agreed with. There was no reason for her to fly off on me like that and the fact that she is bitter, sensitive and takes offense easily when it comes to this topic does not give her a free pass to say whatever she wants. 

I didn't have a hostile tone in my original remark on here. I just made a point bluntly like I always do in these issues. It was not directed at an individual. Now you're insulting me by calling me bitter, sensitive, and easily offended.

YOU are the one who thinks you can say whatever you want. YOU are the one who thinks you can correct other peoples' tone. YOU are the one who was too sensitive, and who reacted by basically trying to silence me. And now you're trying to make it look like my reaction is the problem, which is a typical gaslighting move often used by men who are too arrogant to admit they said something they shouldn't have said.
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Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Norbert - 01-30-2012, 05:07 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 05:29 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-30-2012, 05:52 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-30-2012, 06:00 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 06:12 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by knittycat - 01-30-2012, 06:23 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 06:29 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-30-2012, 06:37 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 06:55 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 07:20 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 07:21 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-30-2012, 07:36 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by knittycat - 01-30-2012, 07:38 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-30-2012, 07:38 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by knittycat - 01-30-2012, 07:39 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 08:09 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 09:01 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-30-2012, 09:14 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by knittycat - 01-30-2012, 09:21 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-30-2012, 09:25 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 09:29 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by knittycat - 01-30-2012, 09:33 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-30-2012, 09:33 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 09:37 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 09:39 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-30-2012, 09:45 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 09:52 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-30-2012, 09:53 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 01-30-2012, 10:04 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-30-2012, 10:08 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-30-2012, 10:36 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 10:45 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 10:57 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 11:02 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 11:05 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-30-2012, 11:19 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 01-31-2012, 01:43 AM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 01-31-2012, 02:05 AM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Guardian - 01-31-2012, 11:56 AM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Warrenton - 01-31-2012, 12:08 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Tim - 01-31-2012, 12:56 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Warrenton - 01-31-2012, 01:20 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Tim - 01-31-2012, 02:16 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-31-2012, 02:23 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-31-2012, 02:57 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 01-31-2012, 03:01 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 01-31-2012, 03:03 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-31-2012, 03:08 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-31-2012, 03:12 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-31-2012, 03:19 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-31-2012, 03:29 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Richard C - 01-31-2012, 03:37 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-31-2012, 03:49 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Tim - 01-31-2012, 06:10 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Guardian - 01-31-2012, 07:20 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 01-31-2012, 08:22 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-31-2012, 08:29 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 01-31-2012, 09:57 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 01-31-2012, 11:12 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 12:22 AM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 01:31 AM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 03:29 AM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 03:39 AM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 05:20 AM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 02-01-2012, 08:41 AM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Guardian - 02-01-2012, 12:41 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Warrenton - 02-01-2012, 01:43 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 02-01-2012, 02:19 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 02-01-2012, 02:31 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 02-01-2012, 02:45 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 02-01-2012, 03:00 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by SCG - 02-01-2012, 03:05 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 03:27 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 02-01-2012, 03:37 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 02-01-2012, 04:02 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Tim - 02-01-2012, 04:06 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 04:10 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 04:12 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 04:15 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 02-01-2012, 04:24 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 04:26 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 04:29 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 04:33 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 02-01-2012, 04:35 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Guardian - 02-01-2012, 04:51 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Guardian - 02-01-2012, 05:08 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 05:17 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 05:22 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 02-01-2012, 05:27 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 05:38 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 02-01-2012, 05:55 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Guardian - 02-01-2012, 07:05 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Guardian - 02-01-2012, 07:11 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 02-01-2012, 07:25 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Iolanthe - 02-01-2012, 07:29 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Guardian - 02-01-2012, 07:30 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by Guardian - 02-01-2012, 07:33 PM
Re: The real St. Francis of Assisi - by JayneK - 02-01-2012, 07:36 PM



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