Jumping In and Out of Hell
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(03-18-2018, 01:10 PM)BC Wrote:
(03-18-2018, 07:11 AM)Rivers Wrote: And what are our choices? You can take a girl that you can get, ignore the Church teachings and basically go to hell or live a life with no affection and intimacy. Let's be perfectly honest, if you insist on premarital abstinence and full adherence to Church teaching in marriage, you're chances of getting married are practically non existent. 

All the Catholic girls and women I have known who have been serious about their Faith would not entertain the idea of not being abstinent in a relationship geared towards marriage.

Now secular ladies, yes you are probably right.

Even then though I have never heard of the woman to be pressuring the man. Usually it's the other way around where women pretend they have no desires and the man has to prove he has what it takes to be worthy of her acquiescence by passing her tests for fitness.

Unless of course you are so charismatic a girl just cannot help but demanding it from you, but then brother you have a unique problem not many men can relate to.

Just joining the pity party...

Prior to marriage, it's so very hard for secular or even NO Catholic girls and probably some trad girls to continually say no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no....  It's not like girls don't have hormones too!  I mean think about it guys, how would you fare if girls were constantly trying to get you to go just a little further, a little further, and manipulating you with flattery, professions of love, invitations to go on fun trips together, guilt manipulation, threats to end it...  Plus all the movies and tv shows and your friends and everyone in the whole world is "doing it".  And now that our society makes it so marriage isn't until you at least graduated from college, it's like a 10-year gauntlet for some of these girls.

With openness to life in marriage, I know it was super difficult sometimes in the old days, but now it's like everyone else gets ice cream but us!  

As for the single life, rough to be sure, but not anything more than what our priests and religious live with.

But, at least we aren't forced to marry someone in an arranged marriage, or marry at 15 and have 25 kids (love the kids and the souls, but I just can't imagine it)

Any way you slice it, any age you live in, it's always there:    the cross!
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Messages In This Thread
Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-16-2018, 02:15 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by BC - 03-16-2018, 02:25 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by FultonFan - 03-16-2018, 02:38 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-16-2018, 02:41 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by FultonFan - 03-16-2018, 02:51 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Galahad3 - 03-16-2018, 02:44 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-16-2018, 03:25 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by FultonFan - 03-16-2018, 03:38 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-16-2018, 08:00 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by FultonFan - 03-16-2018, 08:32 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-17-2018, 02:12 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by BC - 03-17-2018, 09:21 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-18-2018, 06:25 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by BC - 03-18-2018, 06:53 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-18-2018, 07:11 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by BC - 03-18-2018, 01:10 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-18-2018, 01:31 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Sacred Heart lover - 03-18-2018, 11:49 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-19-2018, 02:49 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-19-2018, 03:33 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-19-2018, 11:51 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Galahad3 - 03-16-2018, 03:29 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Poche - 03-17-2018, 01:09 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by IntoTheMystic - 03-18-2018, 08:22 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by GangGreen - 03-18-2018, 09:40 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-19-2018, 11:25 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-19-2018, 03:43 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-19-2018, 11:57 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Ptochos - 03-21-2018, 12:36 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by GangGreen - 03-21-2018, 01:40 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by BC - 03-21-2018, 02:11 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by gracemary5 - 03-23-2018, 12:24 PM



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