Jumping In and Out of Hell
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(03-19-2018, 11:25 AM)SacraCor714 Wrote: But as some other poster said here, self pity is your greatest enemy here. It will make you distrust God to the point where you will eventually completely turn away from Him. You will start to think "God isn't taking care of my needs, so why should I even bother to have a relationship with Him? Screw God. If He's not going to help me, I'm going to help myself."
Thank you for your kind words. I'll just expand on this quoted part so I don't make a huge post. I never think in the terms of 'God owes me something'. What makes me angry that these people who take what they want when they want it get 0 punishment for their behavior. They simply don't face the consequences of their actions. At one point, when they've had their fill, they say 'I'm so sorry' and go on as if nothing ever happened. And they've had many beautiful experiences that I didn't have, but somehow we're on the same level when it comes to chance of being saved. Let me be clear, I don't really envy them, I just can't stand the double standard. I simply can't understand how me mastrubating is equally bad as fornicating for 20 years. And I can't understand how can I be expected to not mastrubate for my entire life if I don't get married. I personally also never actively sought casual sex because I find it meaningless.
I would like to think that this ordeal of mine will be rewarded but I'm getting closer and closer to 30 and there's been 0 progress. Honestly, I'm not really optimistic.
As for contraception, I don't intend to let my possible wife to use pills, no way. My point was that there is no inherent difference between putting on a condom and having sex during the infertile period because in both cases the intention to avoid pregnancy is there.
Oh, and there's no one from my country on Catholic match, I've tried it before :::) The thing is, I can accept a girl which only had sex in a couple of long term serious relationships, I don't even demand a virgin, I know I'll soon see the Yeti than find a virgin over 20.
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Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-16-2018, 02:15 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by BC - 03-16-2018, 02:25 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by FultonFan - 03-16-2018, 02:38 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-16-2018, 02:41 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by FultonFan - 03-16-2018, 02:51 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Galahad3 - 03-16-2018, 02:44 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-16-2018, 03:25 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by FultonFan - 03-16-2018, 03:38 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-16-2018, 08:00 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by FultonFan - 03-16-2018, 08:32 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-17-2018, 02:12 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by BC - 03-17-2018, 09:21 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-18-2018, 06:25 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by BC - 03-18-2018, 06:53 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-18-2018, 07:11 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by BC - 03-18-2018, 01:10 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-18-2018, 01:31 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-19-2018, 02:49 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-19-2018, 03:33 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-19-2018, 11:51 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Galahad3 - 03-16-2018, 03:29 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Poche - 03-17-2018, 01:09 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by IntoTheMystic - 03-18-2018, 08:22 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by GangGreen - 03-18-2018, 09:40 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-19-2018, 11:25 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Rivers - 03-19-2018, 03:43 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by SacraCor714 - 03-19-2018, 11:57 AM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by Ptochos - 03-21-2018, 12:36 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by GangGreen - 03-21-2018, 01:40 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by BC - 03-21-2018, 02:11 PM
RE: Jumping In and Out of Hell - by gracemary5 - 03-23-2018, 12:24 PM



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