Delicate question about sexuality (warning: graphic language)
(04-16-2018, 10:06 AM)SacraCor714 Wrote: If you are good at making love with your wife, she shouldn't have to stimulate herself to orgasm. Perhaps you could try different positions or she could try utilizing Kegel exercises so it is something you can both experience together as a gift to each other.

Please, please, please stop saying stuff like this.  It has no basis in fact and only causes deep issues in the marriage bed.  

The VAST majority of women can not orgasm due to straight intercourse alone.  Not some but the vast majority can't.   The women's sexual organ is on the outside or her body, not the inside.  Most women require stimulation to this part or orgasm will not be achieved.  Doesnt  matter how good the guy is or anything.   The women's sexual organ is on the outside of her body.  Different positions don't work because direct stimulation is needed.  The man can do it during intercourse or before or after or the women during but it needs to be done for the VAST majority of women or orgasm can not be achieved.  If a women is unable to orgasm by sexual intercourse alone it is not the fault of the man or the women. That is just the way God designed our bodies.

So please do not put these ideas in people's head that if the guy is good enough then the women should orgasm from intercourse alone.  To many women and men online have talked about their problems inot this department and i would gather the vast majority come down to a misunderstanding of how the female body actually works and where the actual sexu all organ is.

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RE: Delicate question about sexuality (warning: graphic language) - by havok579257 - 04-16-2018, 11:46 AM

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