If we're saying during or after, shouldn't just before not be an issue as well? Some women are multi orgasmic and if the man were to give his wife an orgasm prior to intercourse, it can make the act easier/more pleasurable for him.
Blood of Christ, relief of the burdened, save us.
“It is my design to die in the brew house; let ale be placed in my mouth when I am expiring, that when the choirs of angels come, they may say, “Be God propitious to this drinker.” – St. Columbanus, A.D. 612
“It is my design to die in the brew house; let ale be placed in my mouth when I am expiring, that when the choirs of angels come, they may say, “Be God propitious to this drinker.” – St. Columbanus, A.D. 612